Would rather be a mother, if I had to choose. Sounds like I don't have much confidence in my adult relationships, does it? Oh, but the benefits of the other are much, much better.

respected or liked?

respected, although I need to be liked.

honored or loved?

Loved...although I'm not sure if I'd find much happiness without being somewhat honored.

Missed or appreciated?

appreciated

tickled or tongued?

Tongued...unless we're talking about running fingers lightly over my skin...and then I'd almost pick that over anything--even sex. :D

forgiven or forgotten (the incident, not the person)?

forgiven

climaxing or working toward?

Climaxing. I have little patience. :D

close or not so close?

close

tactile or aural?

tactile.

naked, or with a little left to the imagination?

Whattya think, a pouch?

splayed, exposed or shy and demure?

shy and demure--it's less threatening.

Quiet and controlled or wild and crazy?

wild and crazy

gentle and smooth or rough and hard?

gentle and smooth.

a passionate lover or successful in everything else?

Can't have both?

A loving person or a responsible person.

Loving...responsible is overrated.

licked or caressed?