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Have fun being you and don't worry so much
 

Don't be so hard on yourself guys. I have found that worrying about such things makes life harder than it should be. I used to be in the same situation you are in (except I am female). And ya know I enjoy life soo much more just being me and having fun with it. I have made soo many more friends in this frame of mind than worrying about everything.

BTW I wouldn't have a problem going out with either of you. :hug:

removed post due to posting under the wrong god damn name AGAIN, I'd like to know why it does this whenever I use foxfire, I'll just have to use IE to do all my posting on this site

I'm not familiar with Foxfire....

But it maybe because IE is putting a cookie on your system to remember you....and when you change and use firefox i'd say the IE cookie doesnt work

Dunno just an idea

Since you have several nicks, I'd be glad to close some of them and then you would not auto log into them.

The real aphrodisiacs for hetero Girls is when a guy is confident, funny, understanding and complimentary. Looking cute helps too, of course. :) If girls are wanting you as a friend they obviously think of you as a nice person, someone to be trusted. But you'll stay stuck there in the "Friendship Zone" unless you take control and move things to the next level. You need to let her know that you find her attractive (compliments work wonders: "You've got a beautiful smile" is sure to make her show it off to you). Be a bit cheeky with your advances. Feel free to borrow this line if you think you can pull it off with humour, charm and authority: "I've got this dastardly plan to kiss you on the lips. Do you think I'll get away with it?"

Even if she does say "no", she'll probably be amused and you won't feel like you've made an utter fool of yourself by just lunging at her suddenly when she's been thinking of you as a friend rather than a lover.

It's great that you're beginning to feel good about yourself. I'm damn sure that you haven't been rejected in the past because of your looks. It's more likely to be a lack of confidence, and that's something you can work on.

Thanks for the offer there lilith, naw dont' close it lol, see thats my girlfriends login, and we've recently had a bit of a spat shall we say and are split up and not living together at the moment lol so when I accidentaly post under her name and it gets sent to her email it just causes a bit of confusion, no problems I"ll deal with it lol sorry if I sounded a little overly aggrivated at the time ^_^

Thanks everyone for your responses, everything helps :) :hug:

I can't speak for other women, but I have an idea of what I want...

I want a man that can be rough, but also gentle. A man that can teach me something I do not know. A man that can have fun just lounging around, but also knows when it's time for us to get out of the house. A man that Laughs as loud as I do. A man that Loves as deeply and as quickly as me. A man that knows when to stand beside me and help support me when I need him. A man that isn't affraid to tell me what he wants. A man that demands my time as much as I do his. A man who is honest. A man that thinks about me as often as I think about him. A man that needs me, as much as I need him. A man that can make love, and then turn me into his pet. A man that is a Master and a Lover. A man that is full of suprises. A man that is spontaneous. A man that is happy with him and with me. A man that doesn't want to change any part of me. This is my perfect man. It might be too much to ask... but this is my dream and ideal relationship.

Where do I look? I look everywhere... Honestly some Friends can become amazing lovers. I hope my man is also my best friend. The moment I have to lie to someone I am interested in, I know he isn't for me. When I know I am into it too deep with someone, is when I can't think about anything else but them, and just thinking of them makes me start singing. I hate and love this feeling, you might ask or wonder why I hate it... it's because it is never returned when I want it to be. Why I love it... because I feel like I am floating.

When I find a man who can float like I do, when I do, then I have found him, and I hope to be with him for the rest of my life.

Until that time... I have fun and try not to hurt myself too badly, Altho I am getting stung pretty hard right now... Why do you pixie men have to be so damn perfect and so far away!?