i confess i love hand jobs. Especially when involving baby oil :)... and maybe some anal play.

I still like full sex... a lot, so i guess i am 50/50. Either way i would not be complaining :)

I could see handjobs being very stimulating, especially from a random hottie. They are a good thing of course, but I confess to a love of blow jobs more. I mean of course i would not turn down a hand job. But to me a blow job is just more stimulating.

may be the guy's asking for hand job's last longer

That's something that I've never really experienced. Can't say it's not something I haven't always wanted to try though. Just seems to be that the women I've been with would rather just "get on with things" or something, not really sure. A few ladies have started with them but didn't follow through to completion. That's ok though, I don't recall ever complaining that things progressed. ;)

It is sort of odd when I think about it though because I've very prone to using both my tongue and fingers on a woman to bring her to orgasm before moving along to other things. Guess perhaps I just haven't found the woman who is adventurous enough yet. Perhaps I should advertise on CraigsList. :rofl:

I checked through all the responses and I'm surprised it wasn't mentioned that maybe these string of men you encountered where married or otherwise involved in a relationship already.

Some men don't consider it "cheating" if they don't have actual intercourse.

Could it be that they were all "taken" but tempted anyway?

That's strange Iowaman - I wouldn't dream of giving a BJ without using my hands as well - to me, that's HOW you do it. To be honest, a BJ usually turns into an HJ with Fussy since he doesn't usually cum from oral stimulation (I can't move my mouth quick enough without killing my back and splitting my lips!).

i agree it's a trend that illustrates people are hip to the need to be careful when having unprotected sex with unknown people.

er... that is, i would probably agree that it's a trend i've noticed if i were in the market for unprotected sex with unknown people, but alas i am not :D

but oh how i love to stroke a cock. the shaft extra, extra, EXTRA slippery. my fingers running over every ridge - slurping, wet noises that make the sloppiest blowjobs sound tame. forearm burning with exertion. the crown rolling into my palm like a greased steel bearing. heavy sac weighed and cupped and held. his head pressed into the pillow, his lips pressed white, his body tense and restless on the bed, his fists that gather the sheets for something to hold onto before he flies apart. and with my mouth empty, i’m free to talk … talk dirty, that is. :D

and (the best part) i’m in the perfect place to watch alllll the action.

And that, ladies and gentlemen, is why I love handjobs. :loveshowe

Are you sure? :faint:

Are we approaching a time when the predominant STD is dermatitis?

or carpal tunnel.

uhm... before we go any further ...are you ...ergonomic?

I have a funny seat...does that count? :p

HJ's don't do much for me, BJ's with hand action yes. If she was just going to give me a HJ I'd just as well not and do it myself. It just doesn't have the same appeal. Psychologically the act of penetrating even if it's orally is a big part of my pleasure. It just doesn't feel the same otherwise :)

sorry did not bother to read the whole thread But with the threat of HIV mutual Handiwork might be the way to go with someone you don't know all that well.... ok after some back reading can we go over that cock stroking technique ?

I gotta get me one of these tables!


And I agree...chicks rule! :hot: