Question for the ladies
 

I was chatting with two of my girlfriends and the subject of sex came up. One of my friends is totally tickelish. She also has 'rapid fire' orgasms at 'the drop of the hat'

I am not tickelish and it take me a while to 'get there.' Our third friend is average on both counts.

So, do you think there is a relationship between being tickelish and sexual responisiveness?

ive never thought about it , could be who knows really ,

in my case im tickelish (VERY) (wiggle ur finger at me and ill laugh i swear) and i also have LOADS of multiple orgasms , since i had me fist one , ive never had JUST ONE , LOL , never less than 10 and thats with "Quickies"

<sigh>

I'm somewhat ticklish but I take ages to cum. Once.

:(

I'm incredibly ticklish, very sensitive in the clitoral department, but don't tend to have rapid fire orgasms and it can take quite a while. Then again, foreplay takes longer for me as for the first ten minutes, anything Fussy touches sends me into hysterical ticklish laughter!

tickle me and die

I know what you mean Lil. I've actually reached the point of almost having a panic attack while being tickled. I am not responsible for my actions and will do anything to stop someone tickling me. If ever someone tickles me one day when there is a knife within my reach, I fear it will all end in tears.

If a man can hop in here for a moment.

The question should not be how ticklish you are, but whether you can tickle yourself.

If you can distance your brain from what you are doing, your ability to come quickly is enhanced.

This is why a vibe, even not running, should bring on orgasm faster than just a finger.

Now watch these ladies prove the exception to the rule.

I would disagree I'm afraid. My own fingers are definitely the quickest way for me to orgasm, as the exact pressure and movement can be applied without causing myself discomfort - as I said before, I'm sensitive.

yup i agree there with loulabelle, i know how i like it better than anyone else so i can get myself off quicker than anyone else. but jeeping def can make me have multiples!

a vibe is fastest for me

So, practical-orgasmically speaking here, masturbation is better than actual sex with someone else, then?

Or just different, regardless of orgasm control?

interesting point oldfart
 

I cant tickle myself. Can you tickle yourself?

not for me. Masturbation for me is a means to an end where as sex with another is the ultimate release.

I can have multiples either way but the intensity only comes when I orgasm in an intimate experience with someone else.

i'm ticklish and hair triggered, too. maybe you're on to something here.

Jeez, Lou, you sound just like my Fiance. She's dangerously ticklish...like you, almost to the point of panic attack. She doesn't like being tickled...for the most part. She likes it just enough to motivate me to tickle her, but she dislikes it enough to get me in trouble sometimes. It's a fine line.

I once tickled her feet while I was rubbing them, and she kicked me in the back of the head hard enough to knock me off the bed. I don't tickle her feet anymore, ever.

I feel a headache coming on just thinking about it. Oy!

I don't like to be tickled AT ALL. And just about every man I've ever been out with would not take my word for it, but had to find out for himself the hard way....oh well, I gave them fair warning, it's their own stupid fault if they don't believe me.

I think guys just have a thing for tickling pretty ladies. It makes them laugh, it makes them squirm...and it's like copping a non-perverted feel.

Of course, some people say it's a form of aggressive tendancy played out in a non-violent mode of behavior. But I say bah to that! I just like the tinkling, merry laughter tickling produces!

Plus, y'know, it's the only way I can get even when she's being evil >.>