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Old 07-30-2002, 08:46 PM
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Sometimes the best lover is a friend. I believe my Fiance to be my friend. We get along wonderfully, we have some similar interests, but we also have our respectful differences that make us unique. We can talk to one another easily, and we can joke and carry on without upsetting the other.

But, on the other side of "dating a friend", I fear that if my Fiance and I were to split we could not remain friends. Once two people build a chemistry as strong as romantic love, there's no going back. It's an all or nothing kinda deal.

And, I fear, you have added baggage by dating a family member of your friend. Are the two girls close? Are their mothers (or which ever parents would be siblings)? When you say the "ex's family has much to be desired", are you talking about her immediate family, or are you talking about your friend's immediate family as well?

There are both pros and cons to dating a girl who is 1.) your friend, and 2.) the cousin to another girl you dated. At least they are not sisters...

Good luck to you!


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