I was trying to make her feel as irrisitable as possible. And as far as not cumming at all, yeah it'd be irritating but as long as I could get hard enough to please her it wouldn't be that bad. From past experience, I don't think that'll be a problem. Like it's been said, it's something that happens and I'm getting over it as well as possible. Although from now on I probably will give some serious thought to a pre-date jerk. lol At least then if it happens I won't make such a mess. LMAO again. Hope everyone else is laughing as much as I am about all this.