Darling Wisper,
I am sure there are as many ways to play the pink oboe as there are oboes to play. All the advice is good. My suggestion? Don't forget your hands. Keep pumping up and down on the shaft while your mouth is doing nice things to the plum. It will be your hands that actually bring him off. Personally I like short strokes to oscillate between having the skin pulled back and having it pulled back firmly - that stimulated the little nerve endings around the base of the head. If you give it a quarter twist each stroke to really tighten things up, that's even better.

Oh - and you're going to have to decide what to do with that cum. In these days of political correctness, you can't take it out of your mouth at the last minute (thanks, political feminists, for teaching us men that you have to take your partner through to the end). You are entitled to snowball at least some of the time, and if you really don't like the taste, think of it as medicine. Let him blow as far back as you can manage, a quick gulp and it's all gone. Take your medicine regularly and you'll feel much better.....