While perhaps not my preferred activity, I love giving handjobs!!! While true that it requires a lot more concentration, I disagree with what you say about missing the feeling of intimacy and control. I find that I can devote my whole attention to him rather than being distracted, so that I am aware of every little reaction my touch incites in him : every shiver, gasp, moan, even the slightest tensing up of his muscles. This awareness means that I have control over him, over what he feels, over when he cums. For me, to be able to see, feel and hear the effect I have on him like that is deeply intimate.

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Si à travers nos veines coule encore le sang...
Si dans les jeux d'enfants on entend encore l'accent...
Si nous sentons encore l'espoir de nos grands-parents...
Si dans les voiles du large souffle encore le vent...
Y'a jamais eu de Grand Dérangement.