I think that fuck-buddy relationships generally have a short shelf life compared with romantic relationships. Probably because during that time they either deteriorate to the point where you're no longer even friends, they turn into romantic relationships or one or other partner meets someone for a romantic relationship. I think that's the way it should be.

I also believe that a lot of those very intense relationships (the type often associated with Hollywood stars) are not designed to last a long time. They burn themselves out too quickly and often cause a heck of a lot of destruction along the way. My Mother had a relationship like that and they managed to drag it out over 20 years, but after the first 2 years it was clear to me (aged about 10) that it was never going to work!

As for my relationship? I really hope that's got a never ending shelf life, but I don't take that for granted. I'm all too aware that any moment he could find himself infatuated with someone younger, prettier, slimmer and with fewer responsibilities than me. Hopefully, he worries about that too though.

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