I think incitatus may be on the right way to go.

This is a group of open minded but very decent and caring human beings in here. We may all be considered by sraight lace people as perverts because we discuss openly our sexual desires and preferences ect, but we have a far more healthy view of it in my reckoning. The underlying thing is that there is an enormous amount of respect shown to all here. OK you may be fat or not have the prettiest face, you may have a small penis but people here do not find negatives like that. We all are not perfect (though some go close ) but we all are sexy and worthwhile and we share knowing that we are appreciated for ourselves and not to be measured by some guage that fits very few.

It is a wonderful place to be a member of.