In the director's cut, they did show them using the dildo on the table. Showing close-up shots of the movements and expression on Connelly's face. I forgot exactly how much they showed with them on the table. It's been a long time since I seen it. Of course all of this is simulated sex.

They showed Connelly's character as not liking one bit of it. That was disappointing. I would have enjoyed it! But of course, society still see that sort of thing as degrading.