Pixies Place Forums - View Single Post

Sugar, speaking from a guys point of view, I think it's fair to say we ALL would like women to "put out" on the first date.... but some of us don't judge a woman on whether she does or not ~ rather, we (OK, me) go for how well we gel as a couple... you know, similar interests/outlook, future plans, etc... plus whether you fancy each other, as you two obviously did. I've had "proper" long-term relationships with girls I slept with on the first date.... and also with women with whom it took quite a while to get "down & dirty" with!

My lady and I didn't sleep together for almost 2 months after we started going out: I didn't want to pressure her, for a variety of reasons (not least of which was because of her anal rape by her ex) but in the end it was her who instigated the actual sex.... it was wonderful, and just keeps getting better!

I'm waffling here, I know; what I'm trying to say is, if he thinks you're a slut, then IMHO he's an asshole ~ ditto if he doesn't get in touch, WHATEVER he thinks! From the posts of yours I've read, you seem like a lovely, warm lady, and if you post pix of yourself on the 'net - so what?! I posted pics of my lady a few days ago, and I certainly don't think any less of her for it!!

So...

1. You most certainly are NOT a whore (for ANY reason!!!)
2. Yes, you (or anyone) qualifies for a serious relationship, first-date sex or not!

Sorry for rambling on, but I really detest guys with attitudes like this guy appears to have!!

Hope things work out for you in the future, Sugar!

DM