Sugar sweetie - you seem to be missing the obvious.

Perhaps.......this guy is NOT a nice guy. Perhaps........he met up with you because he wanted sex and charmed you into bed. Don't feel like a slut....you are not one.

In my opinion the thing you've learnt is that you need to wait a LOT longer before actually meeting up with someone in person for the first time. I recently met with someone I met online for the first time after we'd been talking for about four months EVERYDAY for hours on end and on the phone many times. I honestly didn't think that we'd meet and sleep together straight away (hell, I've never even kissed a guy the first day of meeting him) but it just felt so right and it was fantastic. The thing was that there was no doubt in my mind that he'd stay in touch as we are such good friends and care a great deal for each other, even if it doesn't turn into romance of the century (only time will tell on that one).

By all means, meet guys online, but don't rush into it. Wait until you meet someone that you're burning to meet up with in person and make sure you think carefully through all the possible consequences before you actually meet up and discuss them with him first.

OMG - sorry for writing an essay but I hope this helps.

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