Ahhhhhhhh essence of memories past. I was always the king of "but I'll always love you like a brother" I swear that phrase made me wanna scream. At 45 and still in similar situations I wonder if those guys without hearts aren't the winners sometimes. Oh well... I feel your pain Dude...best of luck.

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As to marriage or celibacy, let a man take which course he will. He will be sure to repent - Socrates

Love is not looking in each other's eyes, but looking together in the same direction - Antoine De Saint-Exupery