jumping on the bandwagon a bit late here but, hey, I just joined a bit ago and this is only like my third visit to this area...always seem to find myself stuck in the story area for some reason, dangit!

Anyway, I won't rehash the important points of foreplay and safe sex. I think you've received plenty of good advice in that area. However, a point that's been missed, I think, is the importance of COMMUNICATION.

By now, I'm sure, you have an idea of what makes you feel good or not so you shouldn't be afraid to let your partner know what he/she needs to do in order to make things better for you. You can express these things with subtle signs such as a sigh, pleasurable little moan or by coming right out anf telling him that whatever he's doing feels good and should keep going. And if he isn't on the ball and misses these small clues just come right out and tell him what you'd like him to do. Sex, after all, is supposed to be enjoyable for both people, not just the guy, so don't be scared to let him know what you'd like or want to try. After all, if someone comes to remodel your house you wouldn't just say, "here's my house..have at it!" and let them run about whilly-nilly and you shouldnt do the same where sex is concerned.

And in regards to him leaving 20 minutes after "he" was done....what the hell was that? I know I'm ignorant to the background information but it sounds to me like he was just trying to get himself a piece of "virgin pussy" and didn't really care about you're first experience or feelings.

But hey...that's just my opinion and I've been wrong before.