I guess it all depends on how soon you both WANT to sleep together; I don't think there's really any hard-and-fast rules about it, you just have to talk together about what you want or don't want to do and, when you're both ready, that's the time!

For some people it can be as soon as the first night; others may wait weeks or months til they feel it's right... communication is the key m'man!! Hope that's of some help.

Welcome to (the posting side of) Pixies... as you'll have seen, it DOES get quite addictive!!

DM

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