You know, after thinking about this for a while, with a bit better frame of mind, something else did occur to me, and don't take this as an insult. I don't know about WI, but I DO KNOW, that in IN, if a woman feels she needs to file an 'order of protection' against a guy (and she CAN use e-mail as proof of being harassed, so be sure to save any and all of yours, including and especially the headers, just in case) AND she can also prove ...'low income' (I forget the legal term - and here's where I don't mean to insult you, but I figured it was a fair statement to think that JUST graduating college, you're not going to have much cash flow). Anyway she can get the court to force HIM to pay all her legal expenses for the filing and granting of the order. Just something else to keep in mind.
Above all BE SAFE!
I don't think anyone here wants to read a thread entitled "Death of a Pixie"...unless it's fiction...which, oddly enough gives me a great story idea based on "journal entries" - but if any of the rest of you use it I'll smack ya with a ruler.