Oh Man, do I know where you are coming from.

I had a relationship where she would disappear for weeks and then tell me off for sending upset 'where are you' emails.
This went on for 3 years till she left me just swinging.

How do you handle it??? Mate if you find out let me know.

But I have not given up and now am speaking with a lovely lady who wants to come out to Australia to meet me. She sends me messages if I am not around for a few days for some reason or other and it gladens my heart.

You will be rewarded if you just keep trying.

best of luck and good wishes