
06-15-2003, 10:09 AM
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Everybody Stretch!
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Join Date: Aug 2002
Location: Pa. USA
Posts: 11,637
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I love compliments from a man........but I'm never in a situation where he'd just blurt out "Great Breasts", unless it's here at Pixies. It's rather rare when a man will say something like, "Wow, you look great in that color"......or something like that, so I accept that as a high form of praise. The usual, "looking as sexy as ever" is nice but rather common (not that I get that all the time but that it's a generality) and so I say a gracious TY and try not to blush.
When a woman compliments me on anything I am taken aback for a split second (actually to see if she is being catty) and if I see she is sincere, I take it as one of the finest compliments I can get. As I eluded to, women can sometimes be catty in dishing out compliments.......but after I "read" the look on her face and know that she has studied me enough to bring herself to say something nice..........I am very flattered!
I wouldn't care if I suspected she might be a lesbian or had ulterior motives of any sort. That she said something so nice as, "nice breasts", would make me rethink how I look at mine. Now, if she reached out and cupped one as she was saying this......well, that's a different scene all together.
I guess what I am saying is...........A compliment spoken with sincerity and thoughtfulness is always appreciated! For a woman to say it seems so much more flattering as it is less common to receive.
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