I agree ... it is good for the soul ... actually, it is just GOOD! ... Lil, you have so much strength and confidence .... I'm too "scared" to do it first .... unless its with someone I've already established that kind of relationship with ..... LOL ... usually if someone makes flirty eyes at me .... I look around and behind me to see who they are really making them at!!! if there's no one there, then I probably blush a bit and try to smile big .... maybe do the head tilt thing if I'm feeling really confident. .... bet most people would have never guessed I'm a bit of the shy and retiring type!