thanks alot everyone

Nubian - excellent point my friend and a great, near poetic way to look at it

Lilth - this is true, and what everyone is telling me

Jennaflower - it is true...there were things about my ex's that i dared not mention even at our most honest momment, but thinking back now, id rather know then be lied to. then again, ignorance is bliss, right? and also, maybe ure right...a bigger difference might cause sensational differnce, but maybe u cant even tell an inch, when it is in you? who knows... any thoughts? CAN u tell?

that goes out to anyone btw!

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