I wash my face before going to work. ha ha

Ok, back to your question...

If I go down on my wife, she will rarely kiss me afterwards.

I don't mind if she doesn't clean up. I've given her oral after having an orgasm during intercourse, so a kiss is no big deal.

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.