To me, it's all in how cuddly they are. When a man touches those around him casually, without thought, he is usually a good lover. Also gotta go with the cleanliness---I don't want to be in bed with someone and have to wonder when the last time they showered was.

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See the happy moron, he doesn't give a damn. I wish I was a moron--My God! Perhaps I am!!