I don't mind a woman who opens her own doors, as long as we're not going to a restaurant or formal gathering. Hell, if she offers to pay, I'd let her. Just not all the time. I like a woman taking the lead, maybe not all the time, but sometimes is good. If she gets ready faster than me, great. Less time I have to spend waiting. Being blunt is great. honesty is nice, even if you don't like what you're hearing.