If you have known a person for some time,you would know what
they like & cater to it.A generational difference,& feminism,also make a huge difference.Example:My wife likes doors,etc.,opened for her,but she is MY age.I held the door,for a woman at Wal*Mart
,one day,& she said:"Thank You,No one ever does that anymore!"
I told her that I was brought up to do that but some women take
offence at that now. Irish
P.S.My wife works at Liberty Mutual.She told me awhile ago,that they had classes on "Sexual Harrassment"She said that now men are afraid to compliment you on your dress,etc.,anymore.In other
words,like anything,there are +s & -s!

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Irish---Better to be dead & cool,then alive & uncool!
(Harley Davidson & the Marlboro Man)