I see about 4 different versions of what people believe are considerd "high maintenance"
I don't think Osuche's friend was describing the powder puff girl who has to shop in the most expensive stores and have to have her ass kissed evey time she bends over.
Gilly you said........
Opening your own doors isn't so much the ladies fault as it is mens, in my oppinion. We weren't raised having doors opened for us, so why should we wait around expecting it now? Men just don't do it anymore, and those who do are rare. We taught our son from the get-go that he is supposed to hold the door open, and say "Ladies First". It's cute when he does it. But, alas, I would say that only about 1 in 50 boys today are told to do that, and out of that number, maybe only half do it regularly. It's the way we, as a culture, were raised. It's both male and female. The men don't do it, and the women don't expect it.
Honey, I was raised that way! It's called MANNERS.
If more parents taught their children these basic manners, we as a society wouldn't be in the mess we are today!
Gingerv you said......
but because I learned that some guys start to mistake low-maintenance for no-maintenance. Nothing feels worse than knowing you don't need much, but aren't getting even that.
BINGO!!!!!!!!!!! That's what happens!
osuche.......... Want to know the difference between a northern girl and a southern girl?
funny, we heard the same thing about northern girls.
you all forget our great-grandmothers traveled down here and fought indians and were still treated like a lady. I don't think we are too damn demanding.
we can be strong and still have class.