you're not- its part of sex, imagine and thanks for all your support! I am enjoying it...and its awesome! He gets closer everytime- starting to get more and more pre-ejac. (not to gross out anyone also!)

btw- you know what I learned? Its NOT uncommon at all....that silly "penis quiz" on the forum had a question about it and now I am starting to be an EXPERT on "retarded ejaculation". There are tons of resources on it.

My guy is great, orgasm or not. All I want is for him to be happy- and I'm convinced he is happy, even though we aren't all the way there yet.