Damn, I can name this tune in 3 notes. Man your ex is experiencing control issues. If you have someone in your life she can't pull the strings for free sitting when she wants. She's afraid anybody in your life will complicate things for her. I had similar problems and even mistook her ranting for having feelings for me. Talk about a rollercoaster ride! Finally I just had to tell her to butt the hell out. I'm as much a parent as she is and I would n't dream of having anyone in my life that didn't get along with my kids. I was quite a bit harsher than that and it shocked her to no end. We didn't talk for a few days but when we finally did she was a different person. I wish you the best, I sure know how Ya feel. I hope my little bit of nothing helps to some degree.

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