If she's not ready to have sex with you, there might not be anything you can do. But then again, I don't know what you've done so far nor do I have any idea why she hasn't gone all the way with you.

Anything you do to get her to have sex will be transparent. What you should be doing is letting her know how much you love her, how much she means to you and how much you enjoy just being with her. If she wants to share herself intimately with you, she will.

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.