I guess I just have to laugh here ... I always figure if I don't know what it means, it must not apply to me .... I have to say, I don't have a clue what it means to be a "jock ass" ... but since I'm not bi I'll just say welcome to Pixies ... there are a lot of different types of people in the pixies group (almost all of them accepting and generous to a fault) and I hope you find what you are looking for.