For me my personal success is in having the two greatest kids one could ever ask for. I get lots of compliments on being a good Dad. I don't think it's anything I've done so much as having had a great mentor in my own Father. My one weakness, having had it pointed out by the best friend $200/hr money can buy, is that I tend to focus on what people can be and not what they are at present. The unfortunate truth of that weakness is I tend to experience tons of heartache thinking "they'd never do anything to hurt me" and finding out my rose colored glasses need some serious cleaning.

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As to marriage or celibacy, let a man take which course he will. He will be sure to repent - Socrates

Love is not looking in each other's eyes, but looking together in the same direction - Antoine De Saint-Exupery