I'm like you Lilith, and while I don't think anyone is ever necessarily made uncomfortable by what I say (Because of the friends I have? Because of the way we are in Britain? Because most people have learnt to expect it from me? I dunno) I am often tarnished with a 'reputation' which couldn't be further from the truth.

On the occasions when people have made jokes about me being a 'tart' or whatever, I usually remind them that I've probably kissed fewer people than they've slept with.

I find more and more, that I tell people that I enjoy talking about sex because I think it's a fascinating subject (from a psychological as well as physiological point of view) and that I think it's important that it does get discussed in an open manner, because there are so many people out there with hang-ups which I might be able to help with a little bit of open discussion. I also find that sex is a good 'common ground' subject.....as living creatures we all have an interest in sex, whether we feel good or bad about it. It's something we all have in common.

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