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Originally Posted by Lilith

Needless to say I tend to be sexually aggressive. Not just in my bedroom but in all other aspects of life. Friends know they can speak to me about anything and everything regarding sex and theat they will get my often times blunt but always honest opinion or a source for any information they may need. My family knows sex is not a scary topic to me that should not be discussed in mixed company or any company for all that matters. I usually do not restrain myself from making a sexual comment. While I don't walk around sexually harrassing everyone, I think it is pretty clear I am a highly sexual creature.

Here's my question....do you think that makes people uneasy? I've always considered myself as a comforting conversationalist, at all times attempting to make the other parties feel at ease, but after a couple of "oh my gosh"es lately, I am beginning to wonder if I take it too far.

Well, not to sound like I am repeating people, but it definitely makes some people uneasy. I am a pretty open person myself about my sexuality and don't have any qualms speaking my mind about it. However my example has to do with a good friend of mine, she used to be a professional domme for many years, and just exudes sexuality, aggresiveness, strength, in everything she does. She works in a very male oriented industry (Harley), and she ends up shocking at least one co-worker every day with either something she says or the way she acts.

Mostly I believe it is due to the puritanical society we live in, which of course is a damn shame. Violence is ok but sex is not...and God forbid a woman be sexually aggressive...since that is usually seen as some sort of threat in today's society. Unfortunately this means sometimes you have to temper your own nature, which isn't very fair to have to restrain who you are but sometimes we do not have a choice.