Originally Posted by GingerV

Look into yourselves, find what you ARE confident about, find what you love, and let that show through. Focus on your strengths, and so will the women around you. Contrarily, if you focus on your weaknesses or your insecurities....so will the people in your life. It is pretty much that simple, even if simple doesn't always mean easy. But have faith, you'll get there. And as a happy bonus, if you find a woman who's attracted to what you love most in life.....you've got someone to share that part of your life with, as well as your bed.