Hey, me being a vaginal virgin and all, I am just wondering... what was the first time for you like? Was it pleasurable? Painful? Was it what you expected? What is great? Was it terrible? Was it something that's a faded memory or something worth remembering? How old were you?

Also, if any of the women have any tips or suggestions about how to make a girl's (mine) first time better and more pleasurable and less painful and stressful and stuff, post it here too. I don't know when I am loosing it or if its anytime soon, but always good to be prepared

Thanks!

Well I don't really want to remember my first time but you know what they say.... you never forget your first........

Well I wasn't ready for it, and Neither was she... but we got thru it anyways.... lots of little mistakes that we learned from.....

one suggestion that I have is USE a Condem and Lots of Lub.....

Too much Lube is not a Bad thing..

Another Suggestion Especially for women, Teach your partner where you like to be touched, and wher you don't like to be touched and always and I mean Always start off with FOREPLAY......

Experiment first and find out what you like and then go from there...

E

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I don't know, I was really drunk at the time. Really though, I was 16 and she was NOT a virgin as I was. It is a great memory...she rocked my world 3 times that night, but we were both intoxicated. No regrets, though!!! And as for the above mentioned suggestion to use a condom and "Lots of Lub", I agree, but make damn sure that if you do use both the lubricant is water-based (such as KY jelly), NOT oil based (such as baby oil) because the oil will break down the condom and render it completely useless.

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I wish all the ladies were potholes in the road...and I was a dumptruck because I'd fill them with my load.

First time is something you will always remember.

Yes it will hurt, but I found that if you already are being fingered, (Sorry for the bluntess couldnt think of another term) or do so before hand, that will help a whole lot. Make sure you are as relaxed as you can be. Tell him to be easy and slow til you get over the first intial entering. Use a condom (as if you should be told that again) and as far as lube..heh if you need some use it. I cant remember a time when I ever needed some but everyone is different. Take care and tkae it easy. Best of Luck,

~babybunny~

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My first time was terrible, of course it was with someone that had no interest in having sex with me, and only did I think because I took her to the prom. And to top it off, she made me stop in the middle of it because she had to go home. Now the second time, now that was great!

My first time sucked!

But I am happy to report that he got better with time and so did I! Much better!

It hurt, I bled, he was in and out so fast I didn't even know what hit me. Little secret here........Make your first time in a special place (like a bed and breakfast for example) and not in the basement of his mother and father's house with them upstairs and she expected down at any moment to finish the laundry!

TeeHee!

Oh...and Nobody Special? Every now and then I like to skip the foreplay and have him pull up my skirt or pull down my pants and panties and just slam it to me! But that's not to say that we haven't flirted with one another for a while and this could be construed as foreplay to some! Just a thought.....and NOT, I repeat NOT, recommended for the "first time"!

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First time was bad and the second time wasn't much better. Though it didn't help that it was the same person and she admitted to me that the only time she had ever cum was with another woman. Plus she acted like I should be doing everything, I was the virgin and she had the experience.

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First time was awesome!
One we both will never forget
Yes yes, LOTS of lube, condoms (have a few handy just in case), and a private place.
Mine was at a hotel on new years eve, friends kept coming by and knocking on the door interrupting us at first, but eventually they quit and we made such passionate love that night.
Over and over and over...
They say that it'll hurt the first time, you won't want to do it again for a few days etc etc etc..
I experienced none of that!
My partner is extremely tender and patient, always concerned that I'm ok, and always wants it to be as good for me as it is for him. (little does he know sometimes I could swear it's better for me )
In all it was a wonderful experience to start out with and even though I thought it couldn't get any better, it has It was way better than I ever could have expected!
BTW - was 19

Today, 2/20, is actually the 4-year anniversary of the day I had it for the first time. So far, I'm about the only person I know that can remember the date! The last couple of years I have even gone about celebrating the day!
I was 18 years old, and back when I was attending my former college, they had this winter formal that was thrown every year at a local hotel...so, it happened right after that. I guess it was sort of like a prom thing for me.

But, it was a good experience for me. He was my best guy friend who eventually became more to me, and even though we aren't together or friends anymore, it was meant to be with him. The night was magic.

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Actually, BCG, I have you beat. I remember the date, and it's been *much* longer than four years. (Checking the calendar...) Yep, you were born.

First time *was* bad. Looking back, it almost makes me wonder why I did it the second time...or the third...or...I definitely should have waited longer, and for the right person--not the person I *thought* was the right person. It's amazing what difference age puts on your perspective. Fortunately, in my 20s I grew up...and grew sexually.

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sorry i'm still a virgin myself.......Goddammit this sux

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I still know the date even though it was more than 16 years ago. I wouldn't say we celebrate it but we do aim (I'm still with her) to have sex on that day. I won't name it because we also use that date as a password--it's meaningful to us but there is no other living individual that knows the signifigance.

any more replies?

MY first time (full sex anyway - I'd had a BJ the summer prior to this) was when I was 17 and in college... she was 22, and had kinda chased me to go out with her (sounds conceited I know, but true.... feck only knows why! LOL) Anyway, she'd had several lovers before me, and knew what she was doing (& THEN some!!), so my first time was awesome!! She got me off really quick first, then we were able to take our time without so much danger of me cumming too soon!

BIG mistake (on my part, as it turned out) was, we didn't use a condom - ever! Remember, this was in 1979 when AIDS was hardly known about, and certainly not the global problem it is today.... 'course, after a few months she got pregnant..... which was, it turned out, her intention all along! (I might tell more about that sometime..... not now though)

BTW, I can still remember the date too....... October 17th 1979!

DM

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Faithing and hoping to buy themselves time
Me, I figure as each breath goes by
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My first time sucked. I was 18, she was 22. We met at a party. I was really smashed; we went back to my dorm room, did it three times, and she left. I do not even remember her name and only vaguely remember what she looked like. Very sad but true.

The SECOND time...now that WAS special. I wish it could have been my first...oh, well!

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