ive been going out with my gf for 18 months and she teases me alot but wont let me finish the deal. what if anything can i do to make her want me?

If she's not ready to have sex with you, there might not be anything you can do. But then again, I don't know what you've done so far nor do I have any idea why she hasn't gone all the way with you.

Anything you do to get her to have sex will be transparent. What you should be doing is letting her know how much you love her, how much she means to you and how much you enjoy just being with her. If she wants to share herself intimately with you, she will.

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.

I'm afraid WI hit it on the head. All I can add is "Yep, sounds about right to me."

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As to marriage or celibacy, let a man take which course he will. He will be sure to repent - Socrates

Love is not looking in each other's eyes, but looking together in the same direction - Antoine De Saint-Exupery

Damn...From the title of this post, I thought you were inviting me to seduce your girlfriend.

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Life is too short not to love and be loved....preferably multiple times in one night.

I think men talk to women so they can sleep with them and women sleep with men so they can talk to them. ~ Jay McInerney

WELCOME TO PIXIES grateglob04!!

What WI said is correct. When she's ready she'll do it. For now just love her.



And osuche, I thought the same thing!!

Me three Osouche.

If the girl's not ready, the girl's not ready. It would actually be pretty disrespectful if you wanted to push her faster than she wants to go. It's not about the tricks, it's about communication. If you're feeling overteased, you might want to ask her to back off rather than demand she speed up.

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