Ok this may get long so I am sorry...

My partner and I have known eachother for around about 6 years now, and have been together for 2 of those years.
He has a son who is almost 9 and of course we have Mikayla. Things have been going great lately no problems no argument nothing.
I thought that I would take thing apon myself to take things to the next level and ask him to marry me.. I asked him on Friday an dhe said NO. I asked him why as someone would and he said " I do not care about you enough to marry you "
WTF is that supposed to mean I mean you will have a baby with me but that is it, anyhow for the last 2 days we have been arguing nonstop. I have had it, today I started to move my stuff out of what was our room and I am going to make his son's mine and Mikayla's room.
I am at the point where I just want to leave and never look back I have had it with him.
Him and I have been through so much over the years I really do love him but I just hate the way he is with me sometimes.
I am seriously thining about moving out of here, but my problem is, is that he would not be able to afford the rent here on his own and I do not want his son to suffer becaus eof his actions and because of what he has said to me.
I have put up with alot of shit from him over the last 2yrs that him and I have been together and now I am and the end of my rope I just want to get Mikayla and all my stuff and leave..............

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ME: 22
DP: 30
DSS: 8
DD: 7 months

Sounds like a plan!

He does not want to marry you. He was honest. If you can not handle it than I would advise you pack up and go. You are not having sex and he does not want to marry you. To me you appear to be not much more than room mates at this point. I don't think the message could be any clearer.

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I'm sure I don't know all the details - relationships are complicated.

But if you're not sleeping together, he doesn't want to marry you, and you are sick of putting up with him....LEAVE.

It will be hard and scary to be on your own, but that's the only way to get enough distance that you can begin to focus on yourself and your child...and hopefully eventually find someone who appreciates you for you. You're cheating yourself from long-term happiness if you stay with him.

It's hard. But all the stuff worth doing in the world is hard. You'll make it through.

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I think men talk to women so they can sleep with them and women sleep with men so they can talk to them. ~ Jay McInerney

Listen to her^^. My advice came out harsher than I intended. You deserve to expect more for yourself.

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The practice of putting women on pedestals began to die out when it was discovered that they could give orders better from there.~ Betty Grable

If I wanted your opinion, I'd remove the duct tape and ask you for it.~ Me
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One man's dream is another man's nightmare~~~~> §¤ Lilith ¤§
~>My Scribbles<~
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What Did You Do Today? Self Defense Class ~Short Sweet Snippets~ § Summer Spin § Story Challenge Submission Pajamas

You say that he cannot afford the rent on his own like it's your problem. It's not. Let him go live with his parents or a friend. Let him find a new room mate. Every action has consequences. I'm not saying that he deserves this because he wont marry you, but what he said about not caring about you enough was pretty harsh after just having a baby with you.

He is a loser.

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It's a BOY!!

((((Mikaylasmummy)))))

Not really sure I can add to what these ladies have already said. You just do whatever you need to in order to get things so that they are right for you and Mikayla.

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Little information. Lot of answers.

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