So,

I've been chatting with this girl at work who is pretty sexually open. In a clean way! We were chatting about wether or not I'd ever been with another woman. I told her no, and she asked why not. And honestly, I could NOT come up with a good reason why. I told her I'd always wanted to try it but figured it was out of the picture now that I was married to my husband.

Lo and behold, he and I have had this convo. a few years back and he was open to a three some of the MFF type. I told my friend this and she said well....when are we going to do it? I was flabbergasted to say the least.

She suggested we start out by her and I making out without my husband present to make sure I like the whole gir/girl experience. That makes sense to me. Plus he's cool with that.

What get's me about the whole situation is I'm extremely shy sexually. Even with my own husband, and we just celebrated our 5th anniversary.

Should I just start with making out with her or maybe I should try a whole sexual experience with her first, then bring in my husband? What do you all think?? Yes, he does know who this other girl is too, they have met. SO she's not a complete stranger.