Nope...We're not talking cars here.... We're talking women.

Simple questions -- mostly targeted to the guys, although womens' opinions are also appreciated:

Is it possible to be too low-maintenance to your spouse/SO? Would a low-maintenance SO still earn your respect? Do you prefer your SO to be high maintenance, and if so why?


A friend told me the other day that I was too low maintenance for a woman. He said he'd never date a woman who: (1) opened her own doors, (2) offered to pay for dinner, (3) liked to take the lead in bed, (4) got ready faster than him in the morning (I take about 10 minutes), (5) and had no problems being blunt. Said a lady shouldn't act this way.

What do you think? Does a more demanding woman create mystique? Make you feel like you had to work hard and thus conquered?

I'd be interested in your thoughts.

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