If you continue to say and or do, you may find that she will become more frustrated and that can hold her back. She needs to learn that she shouldn't worry about pleasing you and your expectations of her and start concentrating on what she is experiencing and feeling. Again, I would get her a bullet and let her experiment with the sensations alone without you hovering over her. She needs to learn about her body with out being pressured by you... believe me - if she is more relaxed and understands how her body works it will be good for the both of you in the end.

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I would take that in mind sorry if i turned u off i wasent using it as a bragging tool, there is a myth about sizes ect and i donno if it is true or not or what sizes women prefere as i have never spoken about size to another guy. I just trying to find ways in telling my gf that i luv her

Nope, it really makes no difference as to your size unless it's smaller than a finger, but then I suggest you see a doctor about that one...

On the topic of your girlfriend's lack of orgasms, I think CGT has a good idea that she needs to relax. If that doesn't work, I'm not sure...it could be biological...

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Dam dnt scare me like that

Honey it's NOT the size that counts. It's how you use it. All it has to be is HARD.

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Yes mam
Btw id like to say thanks to all u lovely ladies for helping me out. Thats y I love women always here to help a guy out in a time of need. Wot would guys do without women

Why is it, when some men feel as if they are unable to give a woman an orgasm that sometimes they feel there must be something biologically or physically wrong with the woman, especially if they feel that they have a larger than average cock????

Women aren't light switches that can be turned on or off by a flick of a finger.

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Well darlin I'll say somethin for ya. I think you're a pretty good guy for taking us 3 women on tonite. Welcome to pixies.

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Lets not get too personal now but im sure men do think its their problem aswell but well their "macho" tendencies lead them into covering it up by blaming the woman
(im on no 1's side ne way, coz ive got the problem)

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What do you mean too personal???? You just asked us how to get your girlfriend off????

*walks off scratching her head*

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Not all guys feel they are too small length wise. Besides if you get too long its just going to hurt her. Width is a nice thing to have (or so I have notice).

As for her...beleive it or not she may simply not feel comfortable with you. Even if she says it, Even more so if you are getting anoyed that you can't get her off.

Stop thinking like a guy where we can hump a tree and get off, women need to relax and work up to it.

* having a visual* omg LOL

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OMG!!! ROTFLMAOPMP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Omg Roflmao!

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That reminds me of something an old friend from home used to do. His slogan was "go hump a tree" - hell, he used to even have a SIGN that he'd wave at you that said GO HUMP A TREE. LOL.

Anyway...if anyone misread me and thought I was blaming the girl, sorry again. I wasn't...I was saying that if she couldn't make HERSELF cum, then that's either psychosomatic or biological...

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