Just letting my Pixies family know that my love is having some problems that are out of her control at the moment.

I hardly hear of her at the moment and it is causing me some difficulty especially as I had someone that I loved for years withdraw from me when she had problems. I emailed Curvy and said that I was struggling because i felt excluded and that I wanted to help her through it and support her.

I got this reply

I know that it has been incredibly difficult lately. I would not blame you for any feelings that you may have towards me right now. Please know that my feelings have not changed, but my situation has. I am trying to hold on for my mom, my kids, and my father. My mother has had surgery on the brain cancer and she has been diagnosed with Paget's disease. My dad and I have talked about some personality changes we have noticed since the surgery (which is difficult to take). Starting next week she will begin chemotheropy. The outlook is very guarded. I'm not sure what I'm going to do. School starts for the kids next week, but I'm not sure that I can return to Montana right now. Everything is such a mess.

That was the first I had heard from her in 2 weeks and we have not had a phone chat in over two months.

It is starting to effect me a bit, I am worried for her and whilst I know she is handling a difficult situation, I wish she would lean on me for support a little.
It is such a strain being kept in the dark most of the time, living alone and waiting for the divorce to be finalised and then getting over to her in December was a hard task in itself without the lack of communication thrown in.

There is not a thing that I can do and I feel so useless.